Definitely the first. Because even though it ended and there was a lot of pain and heartache, there was also a lot of good stuff too, over the years.And all of it - good and bad - has helped made me what I am now, and I like to think that's a person who is both strong and if not wise, then at least able to learn from life.t
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Date: 2002-05-18 05:39 am (UTC)