( My Brief OkCupid Affair With a World Champion Magic: The Gathering Player )
The Australian version of the same article was actually worse, but includes a disclaimer from Gizmodo:
( My OkCupid Affair With A World Champion Magic: The Gathering Player )
Okay, context established. Jon Finkel himself took to Twitter to post his version of the dates, which is collected in one easy to read version:
( Jon's response )
Mountains out of moleholes, basically, with Alyssa apparently being stuck for subject matter and seemingly deciding to go after Gawker/Gizmodo's demographic in an effort to ratchet up her page views. There's a lot of very good articles in rebuttal, take your pick:
“My Brief OkCupid Affair With a World Champion Magic: The Gathering Player” UGH UGH UGH by kiala
How A Girl Named Alyssa Stepped on The Internet’s Last Nerve by Bobby "Fatboy" Roberts
The Science of Gawker's Nerd Baiting by Paul Tassi
Don't Be A Jerk by The Nerdy Bird/Jill Pantozzi
An Open Letter To Gizmodo Regarding Alyssa Bereznak And Her "OKCupid" Article. by Geek Girl Diva
Alyssa Bereznak Just Reminded Us That Women Can Be Predators Online Too by Elly Hart (Gizmodo Australia)
Re: My Brief OkCupid Affair With a World Champion Magic: The Gathering Player by Pop Culture Monster
Mamas, Don’t Let Your Babies Grow Up To Date Alyssa Bereznak by Geek Mom/Ruth Suehle
and finally, the Dork Tower response by John Kovalic
So, back to the original title of this post. In this article, Monica Valentinelli suggests a "let your nerd hang out" celebration as a more constructive response instead of the rather ugly trolling that's going on in the comments of the original article (and remember, trollers, each click earns Alyssa money, so well done there, d'uh). In Monica's words:
SPEAK OUT WITH YOUR GEEK OUT
Sometime during the week of Monday, September 12th to Friday, September 16th post about what geeky hobby you love. Then, tell us why we should try it, too. Leave your fears (and edition wars) at the door. Forget about your latest rant. Tap into that well of positive energy and share in the excitement of all things geek.
Let us invite those who would stereotype us to sit at our table and share our interests.
Sounds like a great idea to me. Who's in?
(There's also a Facebook page, for those who book the face.)