What gets my goat more than anything about the whole _alecto_ debacle is the claim that Joss rapes his wife.
Okay, I gotta climb on my soapbox here.
I like sex. I like it a whole lot. If I could have sex every single day I would. Hell, twice would be fantastic. I like sex.
Also, shockingly, I am female. I'm not sure if she subscribes to the "lie on your back and think of England" school of sexuality, or she's just one of those people that does not like sex a whole lot. I know several people like this, male and female. But the claim that a husband rapes his wife makes me throw up in my mouth a little. Believe me, there is a big BIG difference between consensual sex in a relationship and non-consensual. And to have someone dropping stuff like that just for shock value makes me want to throttle her. It's not a light matter, and it's not for usage in some dumb man-hating argument.
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Date: 2008-03-26 07:41 pm (UTC)Okay, I gotta climb on my soapbox here.
I like sex. I like it a whole lot. If I could have sex every single day I would. Hell, twice would be fantastic. I like sex.
Also, shockingly, I am female. I'm not sure if she subscribes to the "lie on your back and think of England" school of sexuality, or she's just one of those people that does not like sex a whole lot. I know several people like this, male and female. But the claim that a husband rapes his wife makes me throw up in my mouth a little. Believe me, there is a big BIG difference between consensual sex in a relationship and non-consensual. And to have someone dropping stuff like that just for shock value makes me want to throttle her. It's not a light matter, and it's not for usage in some dumb man-hating argument.