Meme: Enneagram

[deathpixie]

Grabbed from [Bad username or site: @ livejournal.com]. Apparently I'm easy to define, even in two questions...

Your result for The Quick & Painless ENNEAGRAM Test...

2 - the Helper

you chose CX - your Enneagram type is TWO (aka "The Charmer").

"I must help others"

Helpers are warm, concerned, nurturing, and sensitive to other people's
needs.

How to Get Along with Me

• Tell me that you appreciate me. Be specific.



• Share fun times with me.



• Take an interest in my problems, though I will probably try to focus
  on yours.



• Let me know that I am important and special to you.



• Be gentle if you decide to criticize me.

In Intimate Relationships




• Reassure me that I am interesting to you.



• Reassure me often that you love me.



• Tell me I'm attractive and that you're glad to be seen with me.

What I Like About Being a TWO

• being able to relate easily to people and to make friends



• knowing what people need and being able to make their lives better
  



• being generous, caring, and warm



• being sensitive to and perceptive about others' feelings



• being enthusiastic and fun-loving, and having a good sense of humor
  

What's Hard About Being a TWO

• not being able to say no



• having low self-esteem



• feeling drained from overdoing for others



• not doing things I really like to do for myself for fear of being selfish
  



• criticizing myself for not feeling as loving as I think I should



• being upset that others don't tune in to me as much as I tume in to
  them



• working so hard to be tactful and considerate that I suppress my real feelings

TWOs as Children Often

• are very sensitive to disapproval and criticism



• try hard to please their parents by being helpful and understanding
  



• are outwardly compliant



• are popular or try to be popular with other children



• act coy, precocious, or dramatic in order to get attention



• are clowns and jokers (the more extroverted TWOs), or quiet and shy
  (the more introverted TWOs)

TWOs as Parents

• are good listeners, love their children unconditionally, and are warm
  and encouraging (or suffer guilt if they aren't)



• are often playful with their children



• wonder: "Am I doing it right?" "Am I giving enough?"
  
  "Have I caused irreparable damage?"



• can become fiercely protective

Take The Quick & Painless ENNEAGRAM Test at HelloQuizzy