The dividing the posessions part was perhaps the toughest, mostly because he'd packed most of it all up for me. I didn't have a chance to really go through things, and maybe that's a good thing, because he needed to heal really quickly, and maybe him going through the things helped him... I'll never know.
One thing I know not to do next time is to ever share expense accounts. Never doing that again; still dealing with the repercussions of having a joint credit card. Not a good thing.
I guess to me, part of it may have been material stuff, but at the same time, he either needed the stuff more than I did, or I just didn't have the room for the stuff I could have gotten. Heh, at least he got the lion's share of the debts...
And you're right; there is never really a Bad Guy, especially in your situation. I'm glad you've come to this understanding.
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Ditto
Date: 2002-03-17 09:21 pm (UTC)One thing I know not to do next time is to ever share expense accounts. Never doing that again; still dealing with the repercussions of having a joint credit card. Not a good thing.
I guess to me, part of it may have been material stuff, but at the same time, he either needed the stuff more than I did, or I just didn't have the room for the stuff I could have gotten. Heh, at least he got the lion's share of the debts...
And you're right; there is never really a Bad Guy, especially in your situation. I'm glad you've come to this understanding.